Sunday, May 18, 2008

Welcome Home

I must confess, it was good to get back home.  It was a very long two-day journey back.  We almost didn't make it out of London due to some mechanical difficulties with our plane.  But, we prayed a lot and made it just in time to catch our connecting flight in San Francisco.  That was a close one too because they overbooked the flight and needed someone to stay behind.  No one was stepping up, so they almost selected someone at random.  That would have been painful!!  But, by the grace of God, we did make it back to Sacramento at a reasonable hour.  It was a joy for Cindy, Pegi and I to see all three of our hubbies standing in the airport waiting for us!  What a blessing!  We surely looked pretty shabby after 2 days of travel, but they did say, "for better OR for worse!"  ;o)

Recounting our adventures to Chuck while we were in Malawi, I really got to reflect on how wonderful our trip was. It is hard
to pick a favorite activity because we were blessed with so many incredible days.  Hanging out with the women was awesome.  It was so great to see the widow's ministry almost double in size.  It was also really neat to see their outreach grow.  Not only do they support women by teaching sewing and crocheting skills, but they have started supporting women in some of their God-given skills.  

We spent some time with a woman who makes a huge batch of nsima (sort of like corn flour dumplings), beans, and a cabbage/tomato relish.  She makes enough for dozens of meals, loads all the food into a large bucket, puts the bucket on her head and takes it all into town to sell.  The Widow's Program invested in her to get her business started and then she gives a small percentage back to the program.  Their goal is to help more and more women become self-sufficient.  It is wonderful.  

Regarding the women, I can tell you that many of them told us about how their life has changed because of this program.  Some of the women care for as many as 15 children.  Some children are their own, but often they support children of a relative.  This program has taken them from having nothing to being able to provide for their families.  Over and over again, they thanked us for helping to provide materials, and thanked COTN for helping to change their lives.  What a gift!  I also received requests from many women to pray for them.  Their lives are difficult and the conditions tough.  They live without power, with water that comes from a well, cooking that occurs in an outdoor kitchen over a wood fire, and mosquitos that are literally trying to kill them.  In fact, while we were there, there was a funeral for a child that died from malaria within 24 hours of not feeling well.  That was difficult to see.  They appreciate every prayer we send up for them, every item we send to them, and every minute we spend with them.  God bless you for your support of these people.

As for the children, the time spent with them was always filled with joy.  The kids love to sing and laugh, and we have many fond memories of welcoming programs, songs filled with hope and praise, and children who just want to be close to you, smile at you, and hold your hands.  Driving through the villages was such a treat because these children would be back from the road playing together but, when they heard our van, they would jump up, come running towards us with huge smiles, waving hands, and yell, "Azungu, azungu!"  They were very happy to have azungus or white people come to their village.  It warmed my heart and put a smile on my face.  

Many times we don't get to see if our efforts make a difference in the world but I can tell you that IT DOES.  It makes a difference when we sponsor children through COTN or World Vision.  It directly impacts the life of a child (and their families) when we support a child.  In fact, I was told that when our sponsored child, Violet, receives letters from Chuck and I, she sings and dances around and treasures every letter that she has received.  Violet's mom, Wezzie, asked me how Jake and Sophie were doing, and how my sisters, Kerri and Michelle were doing.  I was amazed that Violet's family remembers my family and prays for them!  It is a clear picture of how God's love crosses borders and literally reaches to the other side of the globe.  I think that is so cool!

I can also tell you that the children were incredibly blessed by everything that was sent over with us.  We did multiple crafts with them and left behind many supplies.  Their teachers were ecstatic to have materials to teach with, and COTN was thrilled to be able to care for many families.  Every toothbrush, tube of toothpaste, bar of soap, bottle of shampoo, stuffed animal, piece of paper, pencil, and crayon will be utilized to its fullest extent.  COTN has developed a process to get the items out to the most needy families.  There is no question that many people will be blessed because of all the items that were sent over with us.  THANK YOU for your generosity!  And thank you for your prayers and support!  May God bless you for all you have done for us and for others.  I pray that someday you will be able to see first-hand how you have helped change the life of someone in Malawi.

Lots of love to you,

~ Pam

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Tionana, Malawi!

Wow! It is so hard to believe that our time in Malawi has come to an end. We have had very limited access to the Internet while on our trip, so this will need to be brief. All we can say is that the trip was amazing! We spent a lot of time with the women and children in Malawi. We went to several villages that COTN supports and had some incredible experiences. Some of the things we did were:

  • We each prepared an authentic Malawian meal with some of the widows in COTN's Widow Program (this includes cooking on a wood fire outside)






  • We shopped at an outdoor market for food and items for the widows (this was quite the experience and something you would see in a movie. Let's just say the quarters were TIGHT!)


  • We participated in the feeding program with the kids. Monica and I washed hands and Cindy and Pegi served the food.




  • We served at the crisis nursery two different days. There were so many children there and we were double- and triple-loaded with babies!


  • We taught a class in school one afternoon for about 50 children.




  • We led the kids at Chitipi in a craft day making bracelets and key chains.



  • We got to go on safari in Zambia for two days. It was absolutely incredible to get to see God's creation in such a way! And the six-hour drive to Zambia was a bit like "Mr. Toad's Wild Ride." More on that one later...


All in all, we were completely blessed by this visit to the Warm Heart of Africa. We have been blown away by the beauty and generosity of the people we met and are already planning our next trip.

We are looking forward to seeing you all again soon! Thanks so much for all the prayers.

Much love,

Pam, Cindy, Monica and Pegi.

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Happy Birthday, Tawina!

Yesterday was Monica's birthday and, boy, did we pull one over on her! We arranged to have about 50 of her friends and family from Malawi come over to our village and we had a party! There was a beautiful homemade birthday cake, ice cream, music and lots of speeches. It was a blast and Monica sure was surprised! Her new Malawian name is "Tawina." It was such a blessing for all of us!

We went to Chitipi, which is a farm and group home that COTN supports. It was wonderful to get to hang out with the kids there. They sang us some songs too, which was a huge blessing to us. After that, we did crafts of bracelets and keychains (thanks, Raim!). They had a lot of fun, and we did too. :o)


Today, we are going up to Chiwengo. That is a village a couple hours away from here, which has several group homes that COTN supports. It is so beautiful and peaceful there, and we are ready for another amazing day.

We got to have tea with Mr. Yobbe Lungu yesterday. He is the Country Director for COTN. He had us to his beautiful house for tea and lots of great snacks. What a blessing to get to hang out with him and meet his family.

We have been to the crisis nursery twice now, and have gotten to hold and pray for lots of babies. Some are just a couple weeks old. The time with them flew way too quickly though!

Probably the most interesting thing we have done is prepare a meal with some of the widows. We got split up and went to one of their homes. There, we swept (dirt) floors, carried water from the wells, prepared vegetables, made a fire and cooked nsima over the fire. It was hard work - and smoky - but we all made it through! Then we got to go shopping for them at the open market, which was really cool! Lots of goodies out to choose from. Very exciting and lots of people at the market.

Overall, we are having an amazing time. It is crazy how quickly the days are passing! And there are so many more adventures we have been through, we just don't have time to put them all here.

Know that we think of you all daily and are so thankful for your support and your prayers.

Lots of love,

~ Pam, Cindy, Pegi and Tawina :o)

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Muli Bwanji Nonse!

We made it to Malawi! It is great to be here. Monica and Pam are so happy to be back with old friends. We have been made to feel so special and welcome, it is truly beautiful.

Pam's favorite part so far is getting to see Violet again (who is the child she and Chuck sponsor in Malawi).

Cindy's favorite part is just seeing the strength and determination these people have to survive - and the little ones waving like maniacs when we drive by. We're treated like movie stars!

Pegi's favorite part so far has been all the kids. Their smiles and waves and love that they show to us are a huge blessing.

Monica's favorite part so far has been seeing old friends and family here in Malawi and hearing the women sing.



Yesterday, we spent time with the kids. We washed hands and served food for the feeding program - COTN supports so many children! It is fantastic! We were able to deliver many of the items that were sent along with us. Thank you SO MUCH to everyone who sent supplies along with us. The suitcases were stuffed full and COTN is very appreciative of everything.




This morning, we got to spend some time with the widows. We were able to give them the gifts of yarn, thread, buttons and more. Thanks so much for the donations - they will be used to their fullest. One of them made us some homemade nsima, rice and beans, and pumpkin leaves. It tastes like spinach! This afternoon, we will go back to hang out with the women. They are such a blessing!



Tomorrow, we will spend time at the crisis nursery and are really looking forward to that.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

We Made it to London!

Hello, everyone!

We have made it to London and are just waiting for our next flight to Kenya. We wanted to go into the City and maybe see Buckingham Palace but, by the time we checked in for our next leg and got our seat assignments, the time was short. We decided it was a little too close for comfort and settled for fish-n-chips in the airport. However, both Monica and myself agreed they might well be the best fish-n-chips we've had!

We're off to Kenya in a little over an hour, then our final leg to Lilongwe. We already feel as though we have been traveling for days!

We will make further updates as time (and technology) permits.

Love, Pam (and Cindy, Monica & Pegi)

Saturday, May 3, 2008

The Adventure Begins!


Today is the big day!  We are so excited to get to Malawi, it's not even funny!  It seems like the time flew so quickly, but then it really slowed down there at the end.  We are heading to the Sacramento airport today at 2:30p.m.  From Sacramento, we will fly to San Francisco.  From San Francisco, we will fly to London, then London to Kenya, then Kenya to Lilongwe, Malawi (after a quick stop in Lusaka, Zambia).  We will arrive in Malawi Monday afternoon.  Phew!  That is a LOT of flying!  Hopefully everything will go smoothly and we'll sleep a lot of the way -- or watch some movies!

This is a great team and I think each of us is going to Africa with a "blank slate" of expectations.  We are just really excited to see what God has in store for us.  We know we are going to meet many women and children and hope to make a positive impact on a lot of people while we are there.

Stay tuned for more posts over the next couple weeks!  We will get to the computer as often as possible between now and when we return on May 16th.

God bless you and thank you for all your prayers and support.

Love, 
Pam, Cindy, Pegi, and Monica

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Only Two Weeks to Go!


Wow! I can't believe today is officially two weeks from our May 3rd departure. Where does the time go? I still have so much to do! But I am sure it will all get finished in time.  :)

We received our schedule last week and it looks amazing! We will get to spend time with the widows in the Widows Program, we will get to spend some time with lots of children teaching and sharing, we will get to participate in feeding the more than 600 children that Children of the Nations supports in Malawi, and we will get to spend a couple afternoons at the Crisis Nursery, holding the little ones and helping out there any way we can. The four of us are extremely excited and just can't wait for our adventure to start!

Today is the day that our team gets commissioned at our church.  We are so blessed by our church family at Lakeside. Everyone has been incredibly supportive and encouraging of our trip. It is awesome to have so much prayer support behind us as we go out to serve in Malawi.

I certainly hope to have opportunities to update my blog while we are in Malawi.  We will send updates whenever we can.  Definitely in the airport, as we will have some long layovers on the way over and back.

Thank you for all your support!  I can't wait to bring love and joy to the people in Malawi!

Lots of love,
~ Pam

Sunday, March 16, 2008

It's Official!


Well, it's official and I am returning to Malawi! In fact, we purchased airline tickets last week. I am thrilled to get to go back, but am also a little nervous. The nerves are because I will be LEADING a team this year! For those of you who know me well, being "up front" is an uncomfortable place for me to be. I would appreciate your prayers for me as a leader, and for the team as a whole. Right now, the team consists of Monica Marek, Cindy Dickson, Pegi Scarlett, and myself.

Some of you may recall that Monica Marek was living in Malawi last year when we went in June. In fact, she was one of the main reasons we went to Malawi because we wanted to support our Lakeside member far away. I feel so blessed to go back to Malawi with her. She has such a sweet spirit and true heart for God's people.

Another person on the team is one of my best friends. Cindy Dickson and I met in a small group several years ago and have been attached ever since. Cindy is full of God's grace and love and I feel blessed every time I get to be with her.

If you would, please keep us all in your prayers as we prepare for the trip. The dates changed to two weeks earlier (May 3 - May 16), so there is much to do before we go. I hope to keep this blog as updated as I can along the way.

Thank you and I look forward to seeing you soon!

Love, Pam

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Getting Ready Again!

Hello, everyone!

Time flies when you're having fun, I guess. I can't believe that it has almost been eight months since I left Malawi! I am very thankful that God is opening doors so that I can go back again this year. Our dates are currently scheduled for May 30 - June 13, 2008. My application is in to Children of the Nations and I am just waiting to get official confirmation back.

If you would, please keep me in your prayers as plans firm up and the team assembles. I am hoping for a very strong team to go back to Malawi so we can do some great things there.

Lots of love,
~ Pam